Seeing the Good

Seeing the Good

A 21-Day Practice for Cultivating Gratitude

An Introductory Note from Rabbi Andrea Goldstein: I conceived of this practice to cultivate gratitude after listening to numerous interviews with Rachel Goldberg-Polin, mother of hostage Hersh Goldberg-Polin (z”l). In these interviews, Goldberg-Polin described her first act after awakening each day of reciting the words of Modah Ani, Judaism’s prayer of gratitude. In Hebrew, the idiomatic expression for gratitude is hakarat hatov, which literally means “seeing the good.” It seemed to me that reciting Modah Ani each day was part of what helped Goldberg-Polin maintain her ability to hold onto goodness and hope – even during her darkest days. Waking each morning and praying Modah Ani was part of Rachel Goldberg-Polin’s regular spiritual practice before October 7th. In thinking about this, I began to wonder about the strength and hope a community could find together if it committed itself to this same spiritual practice.

If you do not normally begin your day with a prayer, it will take some time for this habit or spiritual practice to form. While there is no scientific evidence that we can begin or break a habit in 21 days, committing to three weeks of daily practice is a good way to know if this is a practice that can become a meaningful one for you.

Seeing the Good: Day 20

November 27, 2024

Treasure this day and treasure yourself. Truly, neither will ever happen again.

-Ray Bradbury, author  

Seeing the Good: Day 19

November 26, 2024

Gratitude turns what we have into enough.
– Author Unknown

Seeing the Good: Day 18

November 25, 2024

In ordinary life, we hardly realize that we receive a great deal more than we give, and that it is only with gratitude that life becomes rich.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer, pastor and theologian

Seeing the Good: Day 17

November 24, 2024

We can complain that rose bushes have thorns or we can rejoice that thorn bushes have roses.

– Abraham Lincoln, American president

Seeing the Good: Day 16

November 23, 2024

In daily life we must see that it is not happiness that makes us grateful, but gratefulness that makes us happy.


– Brother David Steindl-Rast, Benedictine monk and author

Seeing the Good: Day 15

November 22, 2024

In daily life we must see that it is not happiness that makes us grateful, but gratefulness that makes us happy.


– Brother David Steindl-Rast, Benedictine monk and author

Modeh | Modah Ani

מוֹדֶה אֲנִי לְפָנֶיךָ מלך חַי וְקַיָּם שֶהֶחֱזַרְתָּ בִּי נִשְׁמָתִי בְחֶמְלָה, רַבָּה אֱמוּנָתֶךָ

Modeh/Modah ani l’fanecha, melech chai v’kayam, shehechezarta bi nishmati b’chemla, raba emunatecha

I am grateful before You, living and enduring Presence, with compassion You have returned my soul within me. Great is Your faithfulness.

Below are two different melodies of Modeh/Modah Ani, performed by Lucy Greenbaum, Congregation Shaare Emeth’s Director of Music Engagement.