Seeing the Good

Seeing the Good

A 21-Day Practice for Cultivating Gratitude

An Introductory Note from Rabbi Andrea Goldstein: I conceived of this practice to cultivate gratitude after listening to numerous interviews with Rachel Goldberg-Polin, mother of hostage Hersh Goldberg-Polin (z”l). In these interviews, Goldberg-Polin described her first act after awakening each day of reciting the words of Modah Ani, Judaism’s prayer of gratitude. In Hebrew, the idiomatic expression for gratitude is hakarat hatov, which literally means “seeing the good.” It seemed to me that reciting Modah Ani each day was part of what helped Goldberg-Polin maintain her ability to hold onto goodness and hope – even during her darkest days. Waking each morning and praying Modah Ani was part of Rachel Goldberg-Polin’s regular spiritual practice before October 7th. In thinking about this, I began to wonder about the strength and hope a community could find together if it committed itself to this same spiritual practice.

If you do not normally begin your day with a prayer, it will take some time for this habit or spiritual practice to form. While there is no scientific evidence that we can begin or break a habit in 21 days, committing to three weeks of daily practice is a good way to know if this is a practice that can become a meaningful one for you.

2025 Seeing the Good: Day 21

November 26, 2025

Be still, my soul, and steadfast.
Earth and heaven both are still watching
though time is draining from the clock
and your walk, that was confident and quick,
has become slow.

So, be slow if you must, but let
the heart still play its true part.
Love still as once you loved, deeply
and without patience. Let God and the world
know you are grateful. That the gift has been given.

-Mary Oliver, poet

2025 Seeing the Good: Day 20

November 25, 2025

Treasure this day and treasure yourself. Truly, neither will ever happen again.

-Ray Bradbury, author  

2025 Seeing the Good: Day 19

November 24, 2025

Gratitude is the heart’s memory.
– Author Unknown

2025 Seeing the Good: Day 18

November 23, 2025

Hold onto what is good, even if it is a handful of earth.

Hold onto what you believe, even if it is a tree that stands by itself.

Hold onto what you must do, even if it is a long way from here.

Hold onto my hand, even when I have gone away from you.

Pueblo verse

2025 Seeing the Good: Day 17

November 22, 2025

We can complain that rose bushes have thorns or we can rejoice that thorn bushes have roses.

– Abraham Lincoln, American president

2025 Seeing the Good: Day 16

November 21, 2025

For each new morning with its light,

For rest and shelter of the night,

For health and food,

For love and friends,

For everything Thy goodness sends.

Ralph Waldo Emerson, poet and essayist

Modeh | Modah Ani

מוֹדֶה אֲנִי לְפָנֶיךָ מלך חַי וְקַיָּם שֶהֶחֱזַרְתָּ בִּי נִשְׁמָתִי בְחֶמְלָה, רַבָּה אֱמוּנָתֶךָ

Modeh/Modah ani l’fanecha, melech chai v’kayam, shehechezarta bi nishmati b’chemla, raba emunatecha

I am grateful before You, living and enduring Presence, with compassion You have returned my soul within me. Great is Your faithfulness.

Below are two different melodies of Modeh/Modah Ani, performed by Lucy Greenbaum, Congregation Shaare Emeth’s former Director of Music Engagement.